Wagahai’s corner

Ok, since I’m in blog mode, I’ve got some quick writing to do before bed. I suck at saying things in person sometimes, but sometimes I need to get things off of my chest.. and so here we are.

I have a basic question.. with some background. I’ve got this nice group of friends here and I do care about their well-being. I try to be handy when needed, supportive, not cause too many problems (for those who know me I am like the anti-problem causer) and I like to have everything “at peace”.. but sometimes things come up that I feel I need to comment on and get involved in, even if they don’t “directly” affect me - ie: watching relationship issues or noticing a possible bad trend that you feel that you shouldn’t just “watch” continue. In this case the 2 items are related and I am unsure if I should get involved and say my piece, or just let things be since I know that the path being followed is not intentionally to cause problems, I just “feel” that it will.

So, do I get involved or keep my mouth shut and watch to see if things just work themselves out?

[UPDATED - 9/16/03 - 3:20am]
I was awakened by a phone call a moment ago regarding this post. Never was good with the whole completely subtle posting thing when I see something that I need to “discuss” with someone but not having the balls to just go “yo, I see a prob!” and talk to someone. Anyway, personally I feel a relief that I’m not seeing ghosts or making things up in my mind. What I was concerned about was valid afterall..so that’s fine for me and my piece of mind (part 1) but not necessarly fine for the part of me which is concerned about the others (part 2) - so now to see where things go from here. Personally I find part 2 easier to deal with - once there’s recognition of a possible problem, solutions can be found. (yes, I’m a freakin’ optimist.. don’t ya hate us?)

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