..leaves the 1 remaining question at this point..

Who’s hosting New Years?

I totally agree with you regarding being some place on time. I struggle with it for sure. I will make a better effort to be there when I say i’ll be there!

And vent away my friend I’d much rather have your feelings be known about things so I know where you’re coming from.

Anyway, had to get it off my chest and rant for a min and find out what was up.. the only question I had forgotten to ask earlier was the “was it me” question which I figured I knew the answer to, but needed clarified once.

I’m thinking that this may be one of those rare times that I really differ in opinion or belief from the rest of the group as to how to relate to others. I know that moonie likes to go “against the grain” as it were along with D. This is one of those times that I feel the need to say something and find out if I was way off in my expectations.

From my point of view, there’s been a number of times that we (the group) have hung out and said “hey, lets meet up tomorrow about noon and do X Y Z” and then at 3pm I get tired of waiting and call to get told “oh, we went shopping and then did T R and S instead” or “we decided to not do X Y or Z today”.. when in my mind there should be a call, some form of notification. Same goes for being late to meet up (hence my recent being later than usual so that I’m not grossly early in comparison). It’s probably one of those “we’re just different people and do things differently” items, but it since it seems wrong to me, I’m starting to get upset about it occasionally. I realize that “each time” there have been extra circumstances, but by the same token, how many “each times” are there going to be…?

Anyway, enough ranting, I do believe that everyone here has the best intentions, just a matter of thought and acting on them.

..nothing like a good rant to help you get to sleep. Goodnight for now.

Honestly, it just didn’t even cross my mind :/ I *totally* forgot until I saw your name on my phone. I wasn’t trying to be trite or rude on the phone, but I didn’t want to lie to you either - We just totally fucking forgot!

I hope it’s not internalized… it definately wasn’t anything intentional. I think just a set of circumstances. I forgot, D was still half-asleep, and Moon was stressed to hell & back when I initially talked to her. I’m pretty sure I would’ve been forgotten as well had I not actually brought up the idea yesterday

I do think to some extent though, from time to time shit like this is to be expected when we rely on a specific person (Moonie) to repeatedly plan/organize things. I should’ve taken the initiative but I just said, “Nah… Moonie will take care of organizing… like she always does”. Just food for thought - maybe we should have different people organize different events to make the responsibility more equitable.

But back on topic here…. Sorry man. I dunno what else to say :/ It was NOT anything personal

Or stated another way, NO damnit, it’s not you